Abrupt and intense two individual’s sides can be seen mostly to women who undergo a sudden separation with their partners, flings, or casual relationship-hook up partners. I believe that women are good pretenders every time they’re involved in this kind of complicated and crucial matter. They want to show their loved ones and close friends that they are still doing fine even if it’s the total opposite internally. I cannot blame them for doing this because once you experience this kind of pain, I am definitely sure that you don’t want them to be worried and sad of your current condition in life. You want to show to them that you are still doing fine and that you pretend to be happy and resilient in front of them. I met lots of women who did this behaviour intentionally. They became stronger and more powerful when they’re with their parents and loved ones but when they’re alone, they started to cry and burst their hatred and anger while in the verge of blaming themselves. All humans have differing struggles and problems in life. We can classify all of it in to family, financial, career, societal, and love problems. Every time a woman undergoes a painful and tormenting break up, she displays two sides of her while engaging in the healing process. The first one is called the weak side of a lady. This is also called the first stage of the healing process as experts called it. This is the time where a woman would cry her heart out. This is her way of releasing the sadness and pain that she felt inside. She constantly blames herself of the break up and she’s in the verge of wanting the man back in her life. This happened a week after the break up. Then, the second side is called the dominant side of a woman. This is where she rises from all the tormenting memories of that past relationship. She chose not to cry every night and opt to focus on herself more. She makes the break up into her advantage and that’s the reason why she chose to make all the painful memories into a lesson. As experts may call it, this is the “Acceptance and Hope” stage after the separation.

                As you noticed above, I wrote one of the lines of Olivia Rodrigo’s Dejavu song. She said that all the things that her ex-lover and his new woman did were all re-used. She identified that all of it are dejavus from their past memories as lovers. Indeed, it’s two different women but nothing’s new. It is like he’s dating a woman from the past. So, she wanted to ask the boy, when he would confess to his new woman that he and his ex-girlfriend did that too. That new woman shouldn’t feel special because those exceptional things were already used in his past relationship. This is the specific details on how a woman shows her two sides after the break up. If you are ready to find new love, you can click here.